AUTHENTIC STEP BY STEP ILLUSTRATED JANAZAH GUIDE
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
First, all
praise is due to Allah; we praise Allah and seek Allah’s help and forgiveness. Without Allah’s guidance and help nothing can be
achieved.
Behind every
endeavor there are some individuals
who make it possible. This compilation is no exception. My sincere thanks and
appreciation goes to all brothers and sisters of the Salman
Al - Farisi Islamic Center.
To mention
some of those who helped : Br. Sheik Aqeel Al - Maqtary, Br. Sheik Magdy Wardah, Br. Awad Elgarguri, Sr. Huda
(Christine Dodge), Br. Mansour Al - Mutairi, Br. Ghassan Al - Soraihi, Br. Umar Gunderson, Br. Abdennour Moussaoui, Br Abdulsalam saif, Br Ali Al-Shomrani and many others.
They gave their
time and knowledge, time after time, to review, correct, draw, and add, they
were always willing to offer their assistance.
I ask Allah to
accept our efforts, overlook our shortcomings and cover us all with His Mercy
in this world and in the hereafter.
CONTENTS – you can scroll down to any section or read everything.
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Introduction.
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A) Death.
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When a Muslim is at the point of Death.
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2)
Just after Death has been determined.
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B) Mourning the dead.
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C) Al-Ghusul (Washing the body of a dead Muslim).
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D) Al-Kafan (Shrouding the body of a dead Muslim).
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Kafan of a male.
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2)
Kafan of a female.
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E) Salatul
Janazah (Funeral prayer).
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F) Following the Janazah.
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G) Al-Dafan (The Burial).
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H) Special cases.
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Miscarried fetus.
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Children.
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Martyr.
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I) Condolences.
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J) The Edda (Waiting period) for Muslim widows.
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K) Rewards after death.
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L) Visiting the
Cemetery.
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M) References.
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INTRODUCTION
In the name
of Allah Most Merciful Most Gracious
All praise is
due to Allah; we praise Allah and seek Allah’s help and forgiveness. And we
seek refuge in Allah, Most High, from the evils of our own selves. Whomsoever has been guided by Allah, none can misguide him,
and whomsoever is misguided, no one can guide him except Allah.
And I bear
witness that there is no god worthy of being worshipped except Allah Al Mighty,
alone, without partner or associate. I further bear witness that Muhammad
(P.B.U.H) is his true worshipper and messenger, may Allah the exalted bestow
His peace and blessings upon him.
Allah says in
the Quran "O you who believe! Fear Allah as Allah should be feared, and
die not except in a state of Islam " (Quran 3:102).
"O mankind ! Be grateful to your lord, Who created you from a
single soul and from it created its mate, and from them both Allah created many
men and women, and fear Allah through Whom you demand your mutual rights and do
not cut relations of Kinship. Surely Allah is ever a watcher over you "(Quran 4:1).
"O you who believe! Keep your duty to Allah, and speak always the truth. Allah will direct
you to do good deeds and will forgive you your sins. And whosoever obeys Allah
and His messenger, he verily has got a great success " (Quran 33:70-71).
Know then that
the most truthful book is that of Allah (The Quran) and that the best
guidance is that of the Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.).
As Muslims, we
all must submit to the will and commandments of Allah. Those commandments are
in the Quran, the word of Allah, and in the Sunnah, the authentic teachings of
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H), and whatever his companions said or did of which he
did not disapprove.
Allah in the
Quran says : " We have explained in detail in
this Quran, for the benefit of Mankind, every kind of similitude "(Quran
18:54), "And we have sent down to you the Book explaining all things: a
guide, a mercy, and glad tidings " (Quran 16:89).
The Sunnah is
the secondary source of Islamic law, it is the
Prophet’s sayings, actions, and what his companions did to which he showed no
objection. Allah in the Quran says that Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) does not
speak from himself, but is inspired by Allah : "Nor
does he say ought of his own desire and wishes; it is just inspiration sent
down to him " (Quran 53: 3-5).
Muslims are
ordered in the Quran to follow the Sunnah of the Prophet (P.B.U.H), this means
to obey and practice the commands of the Prophet.
Allah in the
Quran says : " Whatever the Prophet ordered
you to do, you should do, and whatever he forbids you, you should reject "(Quran
59: 7), " The sayings of the faithful believers when they are called to
Allah ( His Words { the Quran } and His Messenger ) to judge between them is
only that they say: " We hear and we obey," And such are the
successful. And whosoever obeys Allah and His Messenger, fears Allah and keeps
his duty (To Him), such ! They are the
successful " (Quran 24: 51-52).
" But
no, by your lord, they can have no (Real)
faith, until they make you (Muhammad) a judge in all disputes between
them, and find in their souls no resistance against your decisions, but accept
them with the fullest conviction " (Quran 4:65).
After the death
of the Prophet, his companions gave sharp attention to preserving the Sunnah of
the Prophet. Each one tried to find out what the Prophet did or said in certain
situations, and then recorded it.
Later many
scholars spent their lives investigating those who transmitted the Sunnah; they
compiled the authentic Hadiths. Among these scholars
are Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim; both wrote books
that contain only authentic Hadiths.
The Prophet
Muhammad (P.B.U.H) in many authentic Hadiths showed
us in great detail how and what to say and do in our everyday lives.
Allah’s last
revelation states that Islam is the perfect religion: "Today I have
perfected your religion for you, bestowed my favor upon you and chosen for you
Islam as your religion " (Quran 5:3). Thus it
is fitting for us as Muslims to follow the perfect guidance of Allah and His
messenger through the Quran and the Sunnah.
But
unfortunately, people listen to this and that, see the non-Muslim’s ways of
doing things and then copy it and it becomes the norm .
The Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) predicted this by saying :"
You would copy the same path as was done by those before you inch by inch and
step by step so that if they had entered into the hole of a Dhab
(a desert lizard) you will enter too." They ( The
Prophet companions ) asked him: " You mean Jews and Christians by your
words’ Those before you’ ?." He said: " Who else (than those
two religious groups " (Bukhari and Muslim).
Some Muslims say : " In our country we do things this way and that
way, so it must be the right way ", others say : " We think this way
is much better than the other way ".
So as long as
the tendency remains among the Muslims in taking blind bride in following their
ancestry or tribal heritage or culture or nationality, and as long as Muslims
are hardly bothered to learn and take their practices from the pure knowledge,
the Quran and the authentic Sunnah, more confusion, and more divisions will continue
to hammer the body of the Muslim Ummah.
The message of
Islam covers all aspects of life, commanding all things that will benefit a
person in this life and the hereafter.
This includes
caring for this person when he dies by making dua’
for him, washing and shrouding his body, performing Salatul
Janazah for him ( Where
people pray and ask Allah to forgive him and have mercy on him ), then putting
him in the grave.
The caring
extends to his family too, by comforting his relatives, sharing with them their
sorrow, and offering them condolences, sympathy and support.
Hoping to fill
the need for a simplified Janazah guide to all
Muslims, I have followed the method described in the authentic Hadiths, explanatory step by step notes and several
illustrated drawings.
I have also
included an introduction on importance of following the Quran and the Sunnah of
the Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.), and an explanation of scholars’ ruling on
issues which should be known by every Muslim.
*A DEATH
This topic is very important, as each and every one of
us will experience it one day and that is : Death.
Almost every
day we hear of the death of someone, yet most people ignore the fact that one
day they will die too, they go on with their life as if nothing has happened
feeling that their time has not yet come for them to die.
Allah says in
the Quran: " Everyone shall
taste death. And only on the day of resurrection shall you be paid your wages
in full. And whoever is removed away from the fire and admitted to paradise,
this person is indeed successful. The life of this world is only the enjoyment
of deception:" (Quran 3:185), " Every
soul shall have the taste of death " (Quran 29:57).
In an authentic
Hadith Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said : "
Remember the destroyer of pleasures-death, for not a day passes upon the grave
except it says ‘ I am the house of remoteness; I am the house of loneliness; I
am the house of soil; I am the house of worms’ " ( Authentic-Thermithi).
The knowledge
of the reality of death helps people understand it and prepare themselves for
its coming.
Death is simply
a transition state from one world to another, as birth is. No one knows when
and where he will die or knows how.
In this respect
Allah says in the Quran in Surat (Chapter) Luqman: " Nor does anyone know what it is that he
will earn tomorrow: Nor does anyone know in what land he is to die. Verily with
Allah is full knowledge and Allah is acquainted with all things " (Quran
31: 34).
Islam is the
only religion that explains death in full detail, how it happens, and what
Muslims should do before, during, and after the death of a Muslim.
Allah has
assigned angels responsible for taking our souls out of our bodies. In the
Quran Allah mentioned the Archangel name
"Angel of Death".
Allah says in
the Quran : " Say The Angel of Death put in charge of you, will (Duly)
take your souls, then you shall be brought back to your Lord " (Quran
32:11).
Death involves
agony and hardship as mentioned in an authentic Hadith : "
When Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) was dying, he put his hands in a large cup of
water which was close to him and wipe his face with it, saying : ‘O Allah help
me over the hardship and agony of death ’"( Authentic -Termithi).
For the
faithful BELIEVERS Allah says in the Quran: " Those who have said ‘Our
Lord is Allah’, and then have become upright, the angels will descend upon them
saying ‘ Do not fear nor be sad, but receive good news
of the paradise which you have been promised. We are your protectors in this
life and in the hereafter: therein you shall have all that you desire; therein
you shall have all that you ask for "(Quran 41:30-31).
Allah also says : " When the angels take the lives of the
righteous, the angels say to them : ‘ Salaamun Alikum, enter paradise, because of the good deeds that you
used to do (during your life) ’ " (Quran 6:32).
For the
UNBELIEVERS, Allah says in the Quran : " If
only you could see when the angels take the souls of those who disbelieved,
striking their faces and their backs, and saying :‘ Taste the punishment of the
fire. That is for what your own hands have put forth ( Of evil deeds )’ " (Quran
8:50-51).
Allah also says :" If you only could see when the transgressors
are going through the agonies of death, and the angels stretching forth their hands
saying ‘Deliver your souls; this day you shall be recompensed the torment of
degradation because of what you use to utter against Allah other than the
truth, and you used to reject Allah’s signs with disrespect’ " (Quran
6:93).
The grave is
the first station of the stations of the hereafter. The Prophet Muhammad
(P.B.U.H) said: "When the deceased is placed in his grave
and when his friends depart and leave him, he hears their footsteps, then two
angels will make him sit and ask him : What did you
say about this man ( Muhammad (P.B.U.H) ) ? The Believer will say: I
bear witness that he was the servant and Messenger of Allah..
They (The
two Angeles) will say to the deceased: Look to your place in Hell. Allah has
substituted it with a place in paradise. They see it all together.
However, the
unbeliever or the hypocrite, will be asked about
Muhammad (P.B.U.H). He will say:’ I don’t know! I used to say what
people used to say’. The two angels say to him:‘ How
come you did not know and you did not read about him’. Then they beat him
heavily with a metal hammer.This causes him to scream
painfully and all his surroundings will hear him except human beings and Jinns." (Bukhari and Muslim).
Another
authentic Hadith narrated by Imam Ahmed states that the Prophet Muhammad
(P.B.U.H) said two or three times: " Seek refuge
in Allah from the punishment of the grave,’ then he said :‘
When a believer is about to leave this world, angels with bright faces like the
sun come down to him from heaven with a shroud from the shrouds of paradise and
some of the perfume of paradise and sit away from him as far as the eye can
see.
Then the
angel of death comes and sits at his head and says:’ O good soul, come out to
forgiveness and acceptance from Allah’. The soul then comes out gently as a
drop flows from a water - faucet and he seizes it.
Then the
other angels take the soul from the angel of death and shroud it with the
shroud from paradise, perfume with the perfume of paradise; its fragrance will
be like that of the sweetest musk found on the face of the earth.
They then
take the sweet-smelling soul up, and whenever they pass by a group of Angeles,
they ask :‘ Who is this good soul ?’ The
angels, accompanying the soul, reply using the best of his names that people
used to call him by during his life:‘ So and so, the son of so and so.’ When
they reach the first heaven they request permission to enter, and the gates
will open to them.
The same is
done in the following heavens until they reach the seventh heaven, and Allah
says :‘ Record the book of my slave in the highest place and take him back to
earth, for I created mankind from it, into it they shall return, and from it
shall be brought another time.’
The soul
returns to the body, and two angels come to him, make him sit and ask him: ‘ Who is your Lord ?’ He replies:‘
My Lord is Allah. They ask:‘ What is your religion ?’
and he replies:‘ My religion is Islam’. They ask again:‘
Who is this man who was sent among you ?’ He replies:‘
He is Allah’s messenger’. They ask :’ What is your
knowledge ?’ He replies:’ I read the book of Allah, believed in it and
declared it to be true.’ .
Then it will
be said:‘ My slave has spoken the truth, so spread out
carpets from paradise for him, cloth him from paradise, and open a gate for him
into paradise’.
Then some of
its joy and fragrance come to him, his grave is made spacious for him as far as
he can see, a man with a glorious face, beautiful garments and sweet perfume
comes to him and says:’ Rejoice in what pleases you for this is your day which
you have been promised’..
He asks:’
Who are you, for your appearance brings goodness ?’.
The man replies:’ I am your good deeds.’ He then says: ‘ O
Allah, bring the hour, so that I may return to my family and property.’.
But when a
non-believer is about to leave this world, angels with ugly faces come down to
him from heaven with a hard and rough cloth, and sit away from him as far as
the eye can see.
Then the
angel of death comes and sits at his head and says:‘ O
wicked soul, come out to anger and displeasure from Allah.’ It then becomes
dissipated in his body.
The angel
draws it out violently as a spit is drawn out from moistened wool, and he
seizes it; then the other angels take the soul and put it in that rough cloth
which emits a very offensive bad stench like the worst smell found on the face
of the earth.
They then
take the foul-smlling soul up, and whenever they pass
by a group of Angels, they ask :‘ Who is this wicked
soul ?’ The angels, accompanying the soul, reply using the worst of his
names that people used to call him by during his life :‘ So and so, the son of
so and so,’ when they reach the first heaven they request permission to enter
and the gates will not open to them.
Then the
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) recited
this verse from the Quran : " The gates
of the heaven will not be opened to them "(Quran 7:40), the
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) continued saying :‘Allah then says:"
Record his book in the lowest place,"’ and his soul falls down to earth.
Prophet
Muhammad (P.B.U.H) then recited
another verse from the Quran: " He who assigns partners with Allah is
as if he had fallen down from heaven and been snatched up by birds, or made to
fall by the wind in a place far distant " (Quran 22:31).
The soul
returns to the body, and two angels come to him, make him sit and ask him:’ Who
is your Lord ?’ He replies:‘
My Lord? Oh, I do not know’. They ask:‘ What is your
religion ?’ and he replies:‘ My religion ! Oh, I do not know.
They ask
again:‘ Who is this man who was sent among you ?’
He replies:‘ Oh, I do not know’. Then it will be said:‘ He has lied, so spread out carpets from hellfire for him,
and open a gate for him into hellfire.’
Then some of
its heat and poisson come to him, his grave is made
so narrow for him so that his ribs are pressed together in it.
A man with a
horrifying face, ugly garments and offensive odor comes to him and says:‘ Be grieved with what displeases you for this is your day
which you have been promised’. He asks:‘ Who are you,
for your appearance brings evil ?’ The man replies:‘
I am your wicked deeds.’ He then says:‘ O Allah, do
not bring the hour’"
(Authentic-Ahmed).
All of this,
and the day of judgment has not yet started. So I
remind myself first and I remind you as my brothers and sisters to prepare for
this day; prepare for it by truly and sincerely submitting to Allah, doing good
deeds according to Allah’s commands in the Quran and the teachings of the
Prophet.
Avoid all types
of wrong and evil which Allah and the Prophet asked us to avoid, but do not
delay or postpone since you do not know when death will come.
The following
are simple step by step procedures for a Muslim funeral that explain what
should be done Islamically
when death occurs.
1) WHEN A MUSLIM IS AT THE POINT OF DEATH
Family members of the dying person and his most pious
friends should be informed and should be present at his side to help him turn
his thoughts to Allah, encourage him very gently to repent, remind him about
all the good deeds that he did, about Allah’s mercy, and Allah’s forgiveness so
that he may anticipate Allah’s mercy and Allah’s favors.
Allah in the
Quran said: "And who despairs of the mercy of his Lord, but those who
are misguided "(Quran 15:56).
Prophet
Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said: " Let no
Muslim die except expecting and hoping the best from Allah" (Muslim).
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Those
who are present near a dying Muslim should do the following :
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They
should be kind and patient.
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They
should never leave him alone.
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They should give him hope, not
allowing him to collapse out of pain or
panic.
They should
prompt him very gently (Encouragement without insistence) every
now and then to say the Shahada: "La ilaha ella
Allah", which means ‘There is no God but Allah,’ in a very kind
and sincere manner as these may be his last words.
Abu-Saeed Al-Khuduri reported that
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said : "
Help Muslims who are dying to say: ‘ La ilaha ella Allah’ " (Muslim).
They should
make Dua’ (Supplicate) to Allah to help him go
through situation easy, and forgive him.
NOTE:
There is no authentic
proof of reading chapter (Yasin ) beside a dying Muslim.
There is no authentic
proof of directing the dying Muslim to the Qiblah.
There is no Islamic
teaching of putting the Quran under the head of a dying Muslim.
There is no Islamic
teaching of asking junubs( Those who did not take a shower after a sexual act), or
menstruating women, to leave the room .
2) JUST AFTER DEATH HAS BEEN DETERMINED
When
the person is confirmed dead, family members or those who are present should :
Close the eyes of the deceased.
Um Salma reported that :
" When her husband died, Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H)
closed his eyes" (Muslim).
They should bind his lower jaw to his head so
that it does not sag.
They should cover all his body completely
with a clean sheet.
Aisha reported that :
" Muslims covered the body of Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.)
when he died" (Bukhari & Muslim).
They should make Dua’
(Supplicate) to Allah to forgive him.
They should hasten to prepare the body for
washing, shrouding and burial.
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said: " You should hasten with his burial"
(Bukhari & Muslim).
They
should pay his debts from his money, or if there is not enough, then from any
family member or any relative, this matter is important since the Prophet
Muhammad (P.B.U.H) encouraged Muslims to pay the debts of the deceased.
NOTE:
There
is no Islamic teaching of putting the Quran under the pillow of the deceased.
There
is no Islamic teaching of asking junubs (Those who
did not take a shower after sexual act), or menstruating women to leave the
room of the deceased.
There
is no Islamic teaching of putting flowers, candles etc., in the deceased’s
room.
*B MOURNING THE DEAD
Mourning
over the dead is allowed in Islam, but there is a great difference between what
is allowed Islamically and
the practice of some Muslims at the present time.
Grief at the death of a beloved person is
normal, and weeping for the dead is allowed in Islam. What is prohibited is
to express grief by wailing ( Bewailing refers to mourning in a loud voice),
shrieking, beating the chest and cheeks, tearing hair or clothes, breaking
things or scratching faces or saying phrases that makes a Muslim lose
faith.
All of this is totally prohibited, and the
deceased may feel pain by these actions, Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said: "The
deceased suffers when someone bewails loudly" (Bukhari & Muslim).
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said
: " Two things in people are Kufr
( Ignorance ), one is to ridicule someone on his family genealogy, and the
other is bewailing loudly the dead " (Muslim).
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) also said : " I detest a woman who cries
out very loudly, or shaves her hair, or tears her clothes when a beloved one
dies " (Bukhari & Muslim).
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said
:" He is not of us who beats his face, tears
his clothes and bewails loudly when misfortune happens to him as was done
before during the days of ignorance " (Bukhari & Muslim).
Some people let their beard grow to show
their sadness, then after several days they shave it. Others wear black
clothes, or black ties. All of this has no basis in Islam..
It is a Muslim’s duty to advise gently those
who do these things to stop doing so, since it is totally prohibited. No loss,
however great, should lead a Muslim to sour his faith. They should however bear
patiently and accept Allah’s destiny.
There is no objection to quiet weeping as
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) did when his son died and said :
" It is a mercy that Allah made in the hearts of his servants"
(Bukhari).
Relatives of a deceased Muslim may mourn him
for three days only, but a widow may mourn her husband four months and ten
days.
This is due to Hadith of Prophet Muhammad
(P.B.U.H) who said : " It is prohibited for a woman who
believes in Allah and the day of judgment to mourn any dead person more than
three days except her husband four months and ten days " (Bukhari). This period is called the Edda
(Waiting period) which is prescribed by Allah in the Quran (2 : 234).
*C AL-GHUSUL (WASHING THE DEAD MUSLIM)
When
a Muslim dies, it is the responsibility of his family or other Muslims to wash
him according to the Islamic rites of washing the deceased. Two or three
persons may perform the washing.
The person(s) who may wash the deceased should :
Be a trustworthy,
and honest adult Muslim(s).
Know the Islamic way of washing the dead and
be able to carry out the washing.
Not make any comment on the body of the
deceased.
NOTE:
If
the deceased is a male, then ONLY males should wash
him.
If
the deceased is a female, then ONLY females should
wash her.
For
a married person, the spouse may perform the washing.
For
a child, either males or females may do the washing.
PLACE OF WASHING :
The
deceased’s body should be washed in a clean, secluded, and private place where
clean water and soap are available. Gloves or pieces of cloth are needed.
The body of the deceased should be washed
with water and, if available, lotus leaves, or comphor
(To be used in the final wash).
The washing should be done three or five, or
any more odd number of times if necessary.
STEPS
OF WASHING:
The
body of the deceased should be placed on a table or alike, the deceased’s
clothes should be removed, and the body should be covered with a sheet of
cloth.
The head and the upper body should be raised
slightly to insure the washing water with exudations from the body flows down
and does not run back to the body.
The Aura (Private parts) of the deceased
should be covered with a piece of cloth (The Aura of a male is from the belly
button to the knee in the presence of males, for the female is the same in the
presence of females).
The washer should start washing by saying:"
Bismil - lah
"," In the name of Allah ".
The washer winds a piece of cloth around his
hand, and with this he cleans away any impurities from the body using water.
Then he should dispose of this piece.
The washer should take another piece of cloth
around his hand, press lightly the stomach of the deceased so as so to expel,
if possible, any remnants from it, and then wash the body of all impurities
using water. Then he should dispose this piece of cloth.
The washer should take another piece of cloth
around his hand (May use gloves), and wash the covered private parts, then dispose of this piece of cloth.
The washer should perform Wudu
(Ablution) on the deceased without inserting the water in the nose and in the
mouth.
The washer should clean the body with water
and soap (If available), starting from the head (hair, face and beard{Men}),
then the upper right side of the body then the left side, after that the lower
right side then the lower left.
In the case of a female, her hair should be
loosened, washed, combed, and be braided in three braids, and placed behind her
back.
The washing should be done three times, or
five times, or seven times, as needed, providing that after washing the head,
wash the right side before the left, and the upper parts before the lower ones.
In the last wash, the washer may use comphor, or some perfume with the water.
After that the body should be dried with
clean towel.
Then the body should be totally covered with
a white sheet.
Get ready to start the shrouding.
SPECIAL
NOTE: In case the deceased is a
female in her menstrual period or have child birth bleeding, padding should be
used to prevent blood from leaving the body.
NOTE:
It
is recommended that those who performed the washing should take a bath.
It
is recommended that those who performed the washing should make Wudu.
All
of this is based on authentic Hadith that Um Atiyah
narrated that: " When the daughter of Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H)
died, he instructed us:‘ Wash her three times, or more than that if you feel it
is necessary, with water and sidr(good smelling
leaves), and then after the last wash apply some camphor to the body , then
loosen her hair, wash it, comb it, and make it in three braids laid behind her
back " (Bukhari & Muslim).
NOTE:
There
is no Islamic teaching of reading the Quran during the Ghusul.
There
is no Islamic teaching of making special thiker
(Certain words to remember Allah) during the Ghusul.
*D AL-KAFAN
(SHROUDING THE DEAD MUSLIM)
Shrouding
should start Just after washing the body of the deceased. It is recommended to use white sheets from
inexpensive material. Extravagance is not recommended in the Kafan (Shroud).
Aisha relates that: “When the
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) died, he was shrouded in three white sheets from Yemen"
(Bukhari & Muslim).
THE
KAFAN OF A MALE
The
Kafan of a male should consist of three white
winding sheets about{7 x 7 feet}, clean and large
enough to conceal the whole body, after having been perfumed with incense. Use
4 tie ropes, each 7 feet long (Figure (1)).
The material of the sheet should not be silk,
nor should any gold be used.
STEPS
OF SHROUDING:
The
winding sheets should be spread out one on the top of the other
.
The deceased, covered with a sheet, is lifted
and laid on his back on the winding sheets.
Some scent or perfume may be put on those
parts of the body upon which one rests during prostration that is the forehead,
nose, hands, knees, and feet.
If it is
possible the deceased’s left hand should be placed on his chest, then put his
right hand on the left hand like the way in the Salat (Prayer).
The edge of the
top sheet is folded over the deceased right side, then the other edge over his
left side. Then the second sheet should be folded the same way. The third and
the largest sheet should be treated the same way.
These sheets
should be fastened with a piece of cloth {Tie ropes}, one above the head, and
another under the feet, and two around the body.

2.THE KAFAN OF A FEMALE
The Kafan of a female should
consist of five white garments, (Two winding sheet, a long loose sleeveless
shirt{From shoulder to feet}, a waist wrapper, and a
head veil ), these should be large enough to cover the whole body and may be
perfumed with incense, a loin cloth may be used to bind the upper part of her
legs, use 4 tie ropes, each one is 7 feet long ( Figure (2) ).
STEPS OF SHROUDING:
The garments are spread out ( First:
winding sheets {7 x 7 feet}, Second: the long loose sleevless shirt {3 1/2 x 14 feet, with a hole in the middle
line for the head}, Third: waist wrapper {6 feet x 3 1/2 feet }, Fourth
head veil {a 4x4 square feet white sheet}, and Fifth:
the loin cloth {12 inches wide x 4 feet long} ).
The
deceased, covered with a sheet, is lifted and laid on her back on the shroud.
Some
scent or perfume may be put on those parts of the body upon which one rests
during prostration that is the forehead, nose, hands, knees, and feet.
The
loin cloth is bound round her upper legs (Acts like underwear).
The waist wrapper is tied in place.
Put on the sleeveless
shirt (Long to cover the body from the shoulder to the feet) .
Put the head
veil.
The deceased
left hand should be placed on her chest, then put her right hand
over the left hand like the way in the Salat (Prayer).
The edge of the
top sheet is folded over the deceased right side, then the other edge over his
left side. Then the second sheet should be folded the same way.
These sheets
should be fastened with a piece of cloth {Tie ropes}, one above the head, and
another under the feet, and two around the body.
NOTE:
There is no Islamic teaching of writing any
thing on the shrouds.

*E SALATUL JANAZAH (THE FUNERAL)
A divine service is held
over the dead body of every Muslim, young or old, even of infants who have lived
only a few minutes. When the soul leaves the body, preparations are made for
bidding him the last farewell.
It is highly recommended that, after washing and shrouding the body of
the deceased, the body not to be kept long, but rather taken quickly, prayed
for, and then buried.
Salatul Janazah is required to be performed in congregation to
request pardon for the deceased and all dead Muslims, and to wrap them all in
Allah’s Mercy.
It is preferable that Salatul Janazah be performed outside the Mosque or the Musalla (Prayer room), like in activity rooms or
courtyards.
Salatul Janazah is a collective obligation. A Muslim should not
hesitate to participate in it, whether or not the deceased or his relatives are
known to him.
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said: “If a Muslim dies and forty
Muslims, who do not associate anything with Allah, join in the Salatul Janazah, Allah accepts
their prayers for him." (Muslim).
Salatul Janazah is said silently, except the Takbeer
and Tassleem. All conditions for regular Salat are
required in Salatul Janazah
such as Tahara, Wudu, clean
body and clothes, neeyah (Intention), and facing the Qiblah.
There is a reward for attending Salatul Janazah for both the deceased and those who make the Salat
according to the following Hadith.
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said : "
Who ever attends the Janazah until it is finished,
will earn a Qirat, and who ever stays until the
burial, will earn two Qirats. Someone asked: What
does Qirat mean ? , the
Prophet answered :‘It means rewards as big as great
mountain" ( Bukhari & Muslim ).
There are specific times when it is prohibited to perform Salatul Janazah, unless it
becomes necessary, due to the condition of the body, to perform it quickly and
then bury the body.
This is due to the Hadith of the Prophet (P.B.U.H.) who forbade us to
pray, or bury our dead during these specified times (Muslim).
These
prohibited times are:
1. From sunrise until the sun is fully
risen,
2. At the zenith of the sun (the sun at
meridian), until it passes the meridian,
3. From when the sun pales before sunset
until it has set.
STEPS
OF SALATUL JANAZAH
It is preferable that Salatul
Janazah be performed outside the Mosque / the Musalla.
All conditions
for regular Salat are required in Salatul Janazah such as Tahara, Wudu, clean body and clothes, neeyah
(Intention), and facing the Qiblah.
Muslims should
form a minimum of three lines facing the Qiblah. The
one who leads the Salat is the leader or his deputy, or the deceased’s father.
If there is
only one Muslim with the Imam, he should stand behind the Imam.
The body (ies) should be placed in front of the person who leads the
prayer.
In case there
are more than one dead Muslim (Males and females), then the female(s) should be
placed in the first row(s) in the direction of the Qiblah,
then the male(s) in the following row(s), then the Imam.
For example : If there are : a dead Muslim male, a female, a
young girl, and a young boy, then behind the Qiblah,
first place the body of the young girl, then the adult female, then the young
boy, then the adult male, so the bodies are arranged in a way that females’bodies are first, then the males ( Figure (3)
).

Figure (3)

Figure (4) Figure (5)
The
Imam should stand by the middle of a female body, and by the head for a male
body, this is due to the Hadith in which Anas related
that Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) leading Salatul Janazah for a dead male, the Prophet (P.B.U.H) stood in
front of the deceased head, and for a dead female, the Prophet (P.B.U.H) stood
in front of the midlle of her body.(
Authentic-Abu Dawood). In another Hadith Samura ben Jundub
said when Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) made Salatul Janazah for a dead Muslim female, he stood in front of her
waist (Muslim) ( Figure (4), (5) ).
Behind
the Imam, males stand in lines, then children, then females (Figure (3),(4),(5)).
There
are NO Rukuh, Sujud,
Athan, or Eqama.
Having
the appropriate neeyah (Intention), raise your hands
in the usual manner and say : " Alla-who Akbar ".
Fold your right hand over the left hand in
the usual manner.
Recite the Fatiha silently .
Then say : "Alla-who Akbar".
Then recite the Tashahood .
The Tashahood is :- ( Allahumma sallee ala-Muhammad wa’ala alee
Muhammad kama sallayta ala Ibrahim wa ala alee
Ibrahim, wa barik ala
Muhammad wa’ala alee Muhammad kama
barakta ala Ibrahim wa ala
alee Ibrahim, innaka hamidun
Majeed).
This means : " O Allah! Grant peace to
Muhammad and his family as you did to Ibrahim and his family. O Allah! Bless Muahammad and his family as you blessed Ibrahim and his
family. Truly you are Most Glorious and Most Praiseworthy".
Then say : " Alla-who
Akbar ".
Then make dua’ (Supplicate) for the deceased.
Then say: " Alla-who Akbar ".
Then make dua (Supplicate) for all dead
Muslims.
In the case of a dead baby or young child, make dua
(Supplicate) for his parents.
Then say : " Assalamu
alykum ", like you say in other Salats. Tasleem could be said
only once.
NOTE:
Salatul Janazah for the one who died far away is allowed.
There is no Islamic teaching of putting the picture of the deceased or
some of his clothes or flowers in front of or around the Kafan
( Shroud).
To use a coffin (Box) is not allowed, unless there is necessity to use
it, such as the body of the deceased is damaged, or for health reasons, or when
the grave is wet and cannot be dried.
* F FOLLOWING THE JANAZAH
After Salatul Janazah, the deceased should be transferred to the Muslim
cemetery. Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said : "
Visit the sick and walk with the Janazah, it will
remind you of the hereafter"(Muslim).
It is recommended for those following the Janazah on foot to keep behind or either on the right or on
the left of those who are carrying the body.
They should walk calmly, quietly, and not crowd or
push others who are carrying the deceased.
Following the Janazah with
incense or candles, mentioning Allah’s name loudly, weeping loudly or reading
Quran, playing music, or carrying the body of the deceased on a military car,
all are not allowed when escorting the body of the deceased.
The reward of Janazah prayer
and following the Janazah until the burial is finished
is explained in the following Hadith of Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) who said : " Whoever attends the Janazah until it is finished, will earn a Qirat, and who ever stays until the burial, will earn two Qirats. Someone asked: What a Qirat
means ? , the Prophet answered :’
It means rewards as big as a great mountain" ( Bukhari & Muslim ).
* G
AL-DAFIN (
BURIAL )
Islam has a unique style of building graves and
cemeteries that is characterized by humility, simplicity and economy in costs
and that avoids glorifying the dead with elaborate monuments.
It is of great importance that a special cemetery be
devoted exclusively for the use of Muslims. Muslims may not be buried in the
cemeteries of non-Muslims, nor can non-Muslims be buried in a Muslim cemetery.
The deceased should be buried in the locality in which
he lived. It is undesirable to take the body to the person’s own country or to
another city.
In Muslim cemeteries, there are two types of graves :
Al-Shaqq : is to make a deep vertical hole in the ground.
Al-Lahed : is to make a deep vertical hole in the ground, then
in the bottom make a side horizontal hole big enough to cover the whole body.
Both types are used, but it is preferable to use Al-Lahed if the land is solid ( Figure
(6) ).

Figure (6)
The burial
should be done as soon as possible after death, but the following times should
be avoided :
At night.
From sunrise until the sun is fully risen.
At the zenith of the sun (The sun at
the meridian), until it passes the meridian.
When the sun pales before sunset
until it has set.
During these times burying is prohibited unless
there is an urgent necessity, according to the Hadith of the Prophet
Muhammad (P.B.U.H) that was narrated by (Muslim).
STEPS OF BURIAL :
A grave is
dug deep enough to totally hide the body of the deceased.
The grave should be always perpendicular ( Horizontal) to the direction of Qiblah.
Only men are allowed to attend the burial.
All Muslims who are present should remember death, the
hereafter, and that one day he too will be buried.
They should keep quiet ( No
talking unless it is necessary ).
The deceased’s male relatives are expected to put the
body in the grave, putting the body in the grave should be carried out only by
Muslim men..
A female is placed in her grave either by her husband,
her sons, her father, her brothers, or her uncle.
The deceased’s body should be entered to the grave
from the direction where his feet will be ( From the
rear of the grave ) ( Figure (7) ).
How to
enter the body into the grave
Front
Rear
Figure ( 7)
Those who enter the body of the deceased in the grave
should say : (Bismil
llah wa ala millati rasulil llah), which means : " In the name of Allah and
in the faith of the Messenger of Allah ".
The deceased’s body should rest on his right side,
and should be close to the wall and supported so that the body will not fall
back, the deceased’s face should be towards the Qiblah.(
Figure (6),(8) ).

Figure ( 8)
Those who put the deceased in the grave should not
have had sexual intercourse with their wives the night before.
According to the teachings of the
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H). Anas Ibn Malik related that :" During the burial of the
daughter of Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.), Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) was
sitting, tears coming out from eyes, he asked us:" Who did not have sexual
intercourse with his wife last night?" Abu Talha
answered:" I, Prophet Muhammad ", then Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H)
said to him:" You get down in the grave and lay her down" (Bukhari).
They should undo the tie on the head and the feet.
They should put above the body a layer of wood or big
stones, so that earth will not be put directly on the body when they fill the
grave with earth.
After the body is totally covered, it is
desirable to throw three handfuls of soil into the grave.
Then the grave should be filled up with sand .
It is allowable to put a mark on the grave or a stone
to know the grave.
It is also Sunnah to make the grave convex from sand,
according to the Hadith that was reported by Sofyan
who said : " That I saw the grave of
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) is made convex " (Bukhari),
convex out of sand.
Just after
the burial all Muslims, including the deceased’s relatives, may stay in the
cemetery for a while and make dua’( Supplicate ) for the deceased, since he is being
questioned by the Angels.
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) in an authentic Hadith said : " Make dua’
of Istighfar ( Supplicate for forgiveness) for your
brother and request steadfastness for him because he is now being questioned "
(Authentic -Abu Dawood).
NOTE:
There is no Islamic teaching of transferring the
deceased to another country.
There is no Islamic teaching of revealing the face of
the deceased after putting the body in the grave.
There is no Islamic teaching of shouting with special thiker (Certain words to remember Allah) before, during,
and after burial.
There is no Islamic teaching of reading the Quran in
the cemetery.
There is no Islamic teaching of putting flowers, food,
water, or money around the grave that will benefit the deceased.
There is no Islamic teaching of putting anything in,
on or around the grave that will benefit the deceased.
There is no Islamic teaching of slaughtering an animal
during or after burial.
There is no Islamic teaching of staying in a state of
sadness for one year .
There is no Islamic teaching that the relatives of the
deceased should wear black clothes.
There is no Islamic teaching that planting flowers on,
or around the grave will benefit the deceased.
IMPORTANT RULES IN THE CEMETERY
It is prohibited to step over, lean, or sit on a grave.
Abu Hurrairah relates that
the Prophet (P.B.U.H.) said : " It is
better for a person to sit on burning coal by which his clothes may catch fire
and the heat thereof may touch his skin, rather than that he sits on a grave
" (Muslim).
It is prohibited to build any form of construction on
the grave, or decorate the grave.
From the authentic traditions, it is clear that to
erect domes over graves or build mausoleums or Mosques on graves is strictly
forbidden. Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said: "
Do not build Mosques in the graveyard " (Muslim).
Ali ibn abi
Taleb reported that : " Prophet
Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) instructed him to destroy all statues, and not to leave a
grave raised high without leveling it with the ground " (
Muslim), which means no construction on the grave.
It is prohibited to plaster the grave, whitewash the
grave, or use cooked stones.
Jabir relates that the Prophet (P.B.U.H.) has forbidden
that a grave should be made strong (of bricks and plaster), or durable or one
should sit over it or the same should have a construction over it. ( Muslim).
Jabir also reported: " Prophet
Muhammad forbade the whitewashing of a grave, sitting on it, or erecting any
type of structure on it " (Muslim).
It is prohibited to pray facing towards the graves.
Abu Martad al-Ghanawi reported that Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) said: " Do not pray facing towards the
graves " ( Muslim).
Women are forbidden from attending the burial.
This is according to the authentic Hadith of Um-Atiyah who reported that we were forbidden to accompany
funeral processions. ( Bukhari
& Muslim).
It is prohibited to slaughter animals around the
grave.
Arranging a mourning gathering on the day of death, or
on the third day after death, or on the seventh, or on the twentieth day, or on
the fortieth day, or on the anniversary of the death, all are abominable and heretical practices which
people have introduced.
These practices have no basis whatsoever in the Quran,
in the Sunnah of the Prophet, or in the practices of the early Muslims, may
Allah the Exalted have mercy upon them. Some of these practices are done by
some Muslims in different countries, but that does not make it the Islamic way .
It is prohibited to cremate the body of dead Muslim,
even if the deceased requested it before his death.
It is prohibited to put candles on the grave. Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) said in an authentic
Hadith: " Curse those who light
lamps on graves " (Authentic-Ahmed).
It is also disliked (Makruh)
to pray in the cemetery (Bukhari ).
Performing autopsy on a dead Muslim is totally
prohibited, unless it is requested by court order.
**H SPECIAL CASES
1) Miscarried Fetus:
If the
fetus is less than four months old ( Mother was pregnant for less than four months ), then the
fetus may not be washed; the fetus should be wrapped in a piece of white cloth
and buried. Then there is no Salatul Janazah for this fetus.
If the
fetus is more than four months old ( Mother was pregnant for more than four months ), then the
fetus may be washed, shrouded (Using one or two winding sheets to cover the
whole body), and then Muslims have the choice whether to perform Salatul Janazah or not.
2) Children :
A) Before reaching the age of puberty, a child may be washed by males or females. Shrouding
a child for females use a shirt and two winding sheets and for males two or
three winding sheets may be used.
B) For those children who reached the age of puberty, they should be dealt with as an adult { Female child like female adult, and male child like male
adult}, but then Salatul Janazah
be performed.
3) Martyr:
The body of a Martyr should not be washed, nor be
shrouded but buried with the same clothes that people found him with.
The strongest opinion of Muslim scholars is not to
offer Salatul Janazah for
martyrs since Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) did not offer it for the martyrs of
the battle of Uhud.
*I CONDOLENCES
It is a Muslim’s duty to offer condolences, comfort,
and sympathy to the family and the relatives of the deceased. This strengthens
the relationships within the Muslim community.
When offering condolences, words should be chosen
carefully and said gently to convey sympathy and to encourage the family and
the relatives of the deceased to accept Allah’s will and to help them to get
back to their normal life.
Condolences may be offered to the family and to the
relatives of the deceased before, during or after burial for up to three days,
but it may be offered even at later time if someone did not hear about it or he
was far away.
It is recommended to leave after offering condolences
to give the family time to take care of their other affairs, assistance may be
offered for anything the family may need, and one may stay to help, if asked.
Some families hold gatherings for three days or more,
and hire people to recite Quran loudly. While the Quran is recited, others eat,
drink or talk, disregarding the rules of listening to the Quran, and inflicting
the family with high expenses.
It is Sunnah that friends, neighbors and relatives
prepare food for the family of the deceased, for the loss of the loved one
occupies the family’s whole attention.
*J THE EDDA (WAITING
PERIOD) OF MUSLIM WIDOWS (FEMALES)
Upon
hearing the news of the death of her husband, a Muslim wife should be steadfast
and patient. Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said : "
Patience (Endurance ) is to be present from the first shock "
(Muslim).
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said : "
Allah says: I have no better reward than Paradise for a believer servant of
Mine who is patient and resigned when I take away one of his/her beloved, one
among those he/she most cherishes in the world " (Bukhari).
She should accept all that Allah plans for her and her
family with sincerity and patience, as Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said : "
When a person suffers from some calamity and supplicates: ‘ Inna lil-la-he wa inna
ilay he ra je oon’,‘ to Allah we belong and to Allah shall we return’, O
Allah make good the loss in this calamity, and grant me something good, Allah
then compensates him/her for the loss, and give a better substitute"
(Muslim).
It is prohibited to express grief by wailing,
shrieking, beating the chest or cheeks, tearing hair or clothes, or saying
phrases that makes a Muslim lose faith.
Um Atiyyah reports : " The Messenger of Allah
made us pledge that we will not wail over the dead"(Bukhari & Muslim). {see page
8,9}.
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said :
" I detest a woman who cries out very loudly, or shaves
her hair, or tears her clothes when a beloved one dies "(Bukhari & Muslim).
She may cry, as the Prophet did when his son died. He said :" The eyes are shedding tears
and the heart is grieved, and we will not say except what pleases our Lord"
(Bukhari).
Allah in the Quran prescribed the Edda
(Waiting period) for those wives whose husbands die :
" And those of you who die and leave wives behind them, they (The wives)
shall wait for four months and ten days "(Quran 2:234).
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) said in an authentic Hadith
: "It is prohibited for a woman who believes in Allah and the
day of judgment to mourn a dead person more than three days except her husband,
in which case it is four months and ten days" (Bukhari).
Edda is prescribed for widows in order to mourn the death
of their husbands, observe their memory, fulfill any obligations toward them,
and to see if the widow is pregnant or not.
In the following authentic Hadith, Prophet Muhammad
(P.B.U.H) explains the way that she should conduct herself during this time.
Um Atiyyah reported that the
Messenger of Allah said : "A woman
should not mourn for any deceased person for more than three days, except in
the case of her husband’s death, which she may mourn for a period of four
months and ten days. Such a woman in mourning is not to wear any fancy,
bright clothes, but only plain clothes, not use any adornment or make-up, nor
use perfume, nor die her hands or feet with Henna "
(Bukhari & Muslim).
If the widow is pregnant, then her waiting period ends
when she delivers her baby, according to Allah’s command in the Quran : " And for those who are pregnant, their Edda is until they deliver " (Quran 65:4).
DURATION OF EDDA
|
PREGNANT
|
NOT PREGNANT
|
|
Until
delivery
|
Four
Months and Ten Days
|
So a widow during the Edda should:
Stay in her home, and only leave when it is necessary.
Sleep
in her home.
Not
wear fancy, bright clothes.
Not
wear jewelry.
Not
use makeup including eyeliners (kohol).
Not
use perfume.
THIS
TIME IS NOT TO DEPRIVE HERSELF FROM LAWFUL THINGS, OR TO SUFFER MORE THAN A
HUMAN COULD BEAR. IT IS TIME TO REMEMBER ALL THE MEMORIES OF HER HUSBAND, MAKE
DUA’ FOR HIM, THINK ABOUT HERSELF, AND PLAN FOR THE FUTURE.
*K REWARDS AFTER DEATH
While the life
span of a Muslim is short, and deeds and actions stop after death, a Muslim may
continue to earn rewards for certain things even after his death.
Good deeds,
such as perpetual charity, are the ones that follow him a Muslim (Get the
rewards), even while the person is in the grave, such deeds like: useful
knowledge, a good child that prays for him, a Mosque that he built, teaching
Quran to another person, a house he built for public use, a water fountain or a
river that he rented and made it free for people, or a charity that he gave
during his life while he was in good health; all are rewardable
even after death.
In this respect
the Prophet (P.B.U.H) said : "After the death of a person his
actions stop, except three things that he leaves behind : First continuos charity, Second a knowledge from which some
benefit may be obtained, Third a virtuous son who makes Dua’
(Pray, supplicate) on his behalf " (Muslim).
Charity will
benefit the deceased, as the following Hadiths show :
" A man came to the Prophet (P.B.U.H) and asked him : "
My father died leaving wealth but no will, would he be pardoned if a charity is
given on his behalf ?", the Prophet (P.B.U.H) answered:"Yes"
(Muslim).
Another Hadith : " A man came to the Prophet
(P.B.U.H) and asked him :" My mother has died without making
up for a missed days of fasting in the month of Ramadan, can I fast for her ?
" , the Prophet (P.B.U.H) said to him : "
Would you pay her debt if she owed someone ? ". The man said : " Yes", then the Prophet (P.B.U.H) said :
" Then Allah is more deserving of payment in settlement of his debt" "(
Bukhari & Muslim).
Ibn Abbas reported that : " A
woman came to the Prophet (P.B.U.H) and said :" My
mother had vowed to perform Hajj ( Pilgrimage), but she died before she could
fulfill her vow, should I do it on her behalf ? "
, the Prophet (P.B.U.H) said to him :" Yes perform Hajj on her
behalf. Would you not pay the debt of your mother if she had owed someone ?, fulfill it. Allah is more deserving of
receiving payment for what is due to Allah" " ( Bukhari & Muslim).
So from the
previous authentic Hadiths there are generally three
things that benefit the dead:
1)
Charity; Continuous Charity;
2) A
knowledge left by the deceased from whom some benefit may be obtained;
3) A virtuous son or daughter who makes Dua’ (Pray, supplicate) on the deceased’s behalf, or
perform duties that the deceased did not do during his lifetime such as fasting
missed days or Hajj, or pay his debts.
People put
flowers, candles, food, and perfume on the grave, none of this will benefit the
deceased, but it does help the living to feel as if they have done something,
and that is good. All are permitted.
*L VISITING THE CEMETERY
In the
beginning of Islam, Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) advised Muslim males not to
visit the cemeteries, but after that he the Prophet(P.B.U.H.)
gave them the permission to visit the cemetery to remind them of the hereafter.
This is based
on the Hadith of the Prophet (P.B.U.H.) : "
I advised you not to visit the cemetery, but from now you may visit the
cemetery, it will remind you of the hereafter " (Muslim).
All scholars
have no dispute about the point that it is prohibited for Muslim females to
frequently visit the cemetery. This
is due to the authentic Hadith of the Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) who said : " May Allah curse the women who are
frequently visiting the cemetery " (Authentic, Termithi).
But if the
visit is not frequent , most scholars say it is Makrouh ( Hated action ), while other scholars say it is
permissible for Muslim females to visit the cemetery provided that the visit is
not frequent and it is for the sole purpose of remembering death and hereafter.
When Muslim
females visit the cemetery, they should wear proper clothes, no make-up or
perfume, they should not cry loudly or say words of discontent or behave un-islamically.
The purpose of
visiting the cemetery is to remember the fact that everyone is going to die and
that we must prepare for the day of judgment.
Visiting the
cemetery benefits the dead too, since the visitors will make dua’ (supplicate) for the dead to forgive his sins and have
mercy on him.
NOTE: Although you can do the below things, there is
no formal teaching of doing any of them.
·
There
is no Islamic teaching of visiting the grave after three days, or seven days,
or twenty days, or forty days.
·
There
is no Islamic teaching of visiting the grave of the parents every Friday.
·
There
is no Islamic teaching of visiting the grave any special days such as Eid days, Ashura day, or Ramadan.
·
There
is no Islamic teaching of reading the Quran during the visit to the cemetery.
·
There
is no Islamic teaching of wiping hands over the grave, or kissing the grave.
THIS is only a quick look at this final
journey. a mature person before taking any trip should
prepare all that is needed to have a safe journey, and since no one knows when
this journey will start, then it becomes logical to get ready right away.
PROPHET MUHAMMAD (P.B.U.H.) SAID IN AN
AUTHENTIC HADITH “BE IN THIS WORLD AS A TRAVELLER OR STRANGER”
(BUKHARI).
ALLAH SAYS IN THE QURAN: “EVERYONE SHALL
TASTE DEATH. AND ONLY ON THE DAY OF RESURRECTION SHALL YOU BE PAID YOUR WAGES
IN FULL. AND WHOEVER IS REMOVED AWAY FREOM THE FIRE AND ADMITTED TO THE PARADISE, INDEED THIS PERSON ATTAINED SUCCESS, AND THIS
LIFE IS ONLY ENJOYMENT OF DECEPTION”
(QURAN 29:57).
FINALLY ONE FAMOUS POET SAID: “…when you
are born, you were crying while other people were very happy, so make sure that
when you die, you be very happy, while others cry."
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meaning of the Quran, Saudi
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Quran in the English language, Saudi
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Sahih Al-Bukhari,
Muhammad Muhsin Khan, Beirut, Lebanon.
Sahih Muslim, Abdul Hamid Siddiqi, Lahore , Pakistan.
Riyadh-Us-Saleheen, Imam An-Nawawi, S.M.Madani Abbasi, Saudi
Arabia.
Fiqh Us-Sunnah, As-Sayyid Sabiq, Saudi Arabia.
Ahkam Al-Janahiz, M.Naser Al-Deen Al-Albani, Jordan .
Funeral Regulations in
Islam, Muslim World League,
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Al-Moghni, Ibn Qudama, Saudi
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